Surrendering and having faith in the plan of the Divine is the best place to be.
It is peace. It is reverence.
It is absolutely knowing your worth.
It is knowing that, as a human, if you had control you would 100% mess it up. You wouldn't get the all the details right. You may know you inside and out but that is the only person you know inside and out. Outside of yourself, you would get every single detail WRONG.
It's much better to give complete control over to the Divine when it comes to what you want to see made manifest in your life. Have the intention to make the best choices possible along the way. God knows your heart.
Getting closer to God gets you closer to your desires because as long as you're trying to work out the details yourself, you're not focusing on what really matters. What matters is you living the life you were meant to live in each present moment. That's when you're closest to God.
God doesn't dwell on the past. Neither should you. The future is already taken care of. You just have to take the steps to get there.
When you're making choices with the intention to control every little detail, you end up taking a longer path, which leads to frustration, a decrease in faith, and many d e l a y s.
You can find joy and solace in surrendering because then you're in perfect alignment for what you were always a perfect magnet for anyway. That's why when you completely surrender and live in the moment you feel happier because then you're on the most direct and shortest path to what you desire. It makes you that much more magnetic.
And it can happen just like that ⚡